My mom is so mean! She doesn't appreciate my dad at all! He gets her anything she wants! She's so mean to me, she says I'm selfish and says I'm stupid sometimes. I got this scar on my elbow that was infected and is as I type and I told her and she said, "oh honey, it really doesn't matter and it's not important." but then she had to fix her nose twice, get lypo-suction, and she gets her hair done at least three times a week. Then she was calling me fat because she said I was the same clothing size as her and, no way! She's 155 lbs. and I'm 94 lbs. I'm a size twelve in childrens' sizes and she's like a 6-7 womens'. I just found that so offensive! Then she's always racist to people, she is caucasian, it's really rude because I'm half asian. Then she always threaten to divorce my dad and he gets sad so he has to buy her more stuff. It was recently her birthday and my dad got her, expensive imported tea, a Japanese tea set with and expensive tray, Tahitian pearl earrings, necklace and ring, and clothes. Everyone says how she's so lucky but she's so unappreciative and selfish. She's really not a nice person and she thinks to highly of herself. She never really apologizes to me or is really nice to me. She only buys me stuff which doesn't help. I tell her to stop, but she just buys me more stuff. What should I do? I really don't like her. I'm still nice to her though.

Just remember that you don't want to be like her.

I would ignore her or confront her. Just confront her and tell her how you feel. If she is calling you fat I would talk to her about it.

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Maybe you should talk to your dad about her. He must see something in her if they are still together.

schiesse! that really selfish of her! its either confront or ignore

You can't change who your mother is. The only thing you can do is help your father realize what kind of woman your mother is and what kind of wife she is. The ball is actually in your father's court. He should stop showering her with gifts and see how long she will stay "calm" (or as calm as she has been until now). They should get some marriage counseling, or your mother should see a psychiatrist. Just make sure never to become her and make your dad see the light... your mother is manipulative and may always be that way.

I can't really say anything besides, don't ever be like that, keep trying your best to make her stop buying you useless stuff, pray that your dad doesn't get to sad, or that he actually stands up to her.And if things start going really bad, you can try having an intervention to help her since she apparently needs all the help she can get. I hope this helps.

Whoa! I can't believe that i used to want to have a mom like yours! And I thought mii mom was unappreciative! It's obvious that ur dad is head over heels for ur stepmom. The best thing to do is to tell ur dad and possibly speak to your birthmom. Also, talk to your siblings, I'm sure u guys can think of something!