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Did I get shot down, or do I still have a chance?


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Old 07-06-2009, 02:51 AM
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My gut feeling is telling me that she might have just shot you down nicely. She probably sees you only as a friend (at least at this point), and doesn't want to hurt you feelings. I would probably bring it up next time you see her, and ask her directly why you didn't get a straight answer. I don't know. That's just my gut feeling. Good luck!!!
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Old 07-06-2009, 02:51 AM
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just do it, play it off kinda like a joke, next class go to her and say you have been real busy lately and you forgot what day, and when she says "what day what", you say, "the bike ride we were going to go on", that will be hard for her to dodge. now.. if she says something about not dating students, flip it on her and say " heyyyy slow down i was just asking for a bike ride partner", then each week do a little more, little more and she's in the bag.
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Old 07-06-2009, 02:51 AM
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keep at it i dont think you got reject not now not yet.but she still usnure bcuz remember u just droped a hint you didnt full out ask her.talke to her more take it slow if u can.shell like you more later im sure of it.
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Old 07-06-2009, 02:51 AM
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I'm 25 and attend yoga classes at my healthclub. The instructor I see on Thursdays is around my age, and it seems like every week we hit it off a little more. She's always really excited to see me when I walk in and doesn't acknowledge the others the same way. Every week we've been talking after class a little longer and more in-depth to the point where last week we ended up talking for 25 minutes last week after class, from anything to our careers, hobbies, etc. I seemed to get the vibe she was interested in me, so I wanted to ask her out in a subtle way. Yesterday after class we were talking about cycling, and I suggested if she ever needed a riding buddy that I was her man. She kind of mumbled something and then asked me where I liked to ride, etc, but didn't respond directly to my statement. I felt a little like maybe she dodged the statement, but can't be sure. We kept talking for about ten minutes, and she didn't seem phased or put off by what I said. What i'm trying to figure out is, did she reject me, just miss the big hint i dropped, or perhaps I wasn't forward enough in asking her out. What do you think?
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